5 Effective Flirting Tools + Video

Have you ever gone to a bar or night club, saw a girl that you liked, but missed your chance because you didn't know how to approach her? Have you ever been friends with a girl you secretly wanted? If you have experienced either or both problems, the following advice might prove helpful.
Tip no. 1: Listen and Learn- When a girl talks, listen to her. Don't cut her off or call her stupid for her opinion. Be honest, but not cruel; after all, you are after her heart, not an ego boost. Ask her about herself. Listen attentively and ask questions or make comments where appropriate. Make sure that you are talking one on one. If you are in a group, single her out and turn toward her when talking. This way she knows that your attention is on her. Be sincere and ask about what you want to know about. It sucks to find out when a guy isn't sincere and she will stop speaking to you if you do that. Finding out about her is helpful in figuring out whether or not you want to pursue anything more, so it's in your best interest to take this advice.
Tip no. 2: Smile and Be Playful- Girls like a guy with a sense of humor. After you find out what interests her you can gauge as to what will make her laugh. Be playful and fun. Girls are just as laid back as guys when they feel comfortable. Laughter and a smile WILL encourage comfort and attraction. For you guys who have a great sense of humor, she might not know you are flirting unless you display it more. Try to smile when glancing at her. Don't stare but catch her eye. Make sure she sees you look at her: her hair, her eyes, her mouth, her hands, anything that isn't her breasts or ass, lol! Letting your guard down to tell a joke or smile will demonstrate confidence, make her feel more comfortable, and make you feel more comfortable in your own skin. Don't give her mixed signals by backing off after a good conversation due to lack of confidence. If you DO have to go, tell her good bye and give her a hug. Never just walk off.
Tip no. 3: Shine Through- Be yourself! When taking the above advice, don't pretend to be who you are not. Practice smiling and dressing up prior to your date if you need to feel more comfortable. Wearing an outfit that will make you feel comfortable or more confident will also help. Also meet her in a place that you know well or that makes you feel at home. Find the little things that will help boost your confidence. Accept compliments and say thanks instead of "That's not true." Let her know that you believe in yourself, so that she can believe in you too. Talk to her about your interests, but make sure to ask about her too. If you only talk about yourself only, you could come off as being arrogant. Feel confident and stick to your guns though. Girls want someone who will be dependable, down to earth, and real.
Tip no. 4: Close the Space Between You- When you are talking, getting to know her, and making her smile, catch her glance and move on in. Don't grope her, lol. Since girls are subtle in flirting, you should be too. Instead of groping her, tickle her, move your leg close to her, lean toward her, sit closer, and/or rest your hand by her side or by her hand. When you do these things, act natural by continuing your conversation with her. Don't grab her hand or put your arm around her unless you gauge that it is okay to do so. NEVER GROPE HER, even as a joke! If you want to smell her or feel more of her, hug her at the end of your meeting. Make sure it is a proper two armed hug. If you had fun then make it a funny hug, but display your wanting to feel her by holding her firmly. Never shake her hand at the end or fist pump.
Tip no. 5: Know When to Back Off- If a girl does not respond or responds negatively, recognize her gestures and back off. Don't try another technique on her, just continue your conversation and don't make any physical gestures to her for the rest of the evening. One thing I have noticed though is that sometimes weird girls play hard to get. You can gauge if that's what she is doing by pulling back more so by turning away when in a group, leaving to talk to your friends then coming back, talking to others and acknowledging her less, etc. I would suggest against this though unless you are looking for a lay because she is an attention whore. It's safer to just back off.
For more help, I have posted this hilarious flirtation advice video from Youtube. In the video, the guy over exaggerates and has fun with it... so don't over exaggerate like in the video but take the advice. Try to let your personality shine through whatever you do, like how this guy tries to be funny when re-enacting a date circumstance.
Happy Hunting :D